Our Family Ramblings!

Part of our "festivities" for Christmas is the much anticipated SANTA RUN!  This is where the local fire and police departments escort Santa's sleigh throught all our local neighborhoods!  They come with sirens blaring and loud christmas music so you have no doubt he is on the way!  Monkey was convinced that he was bringing her gift to her tonight.  We finally had her convinced that he was only doing a drive by to make sure he knew where she lived so when he comes on christmas eve, he knows exactly where he is going!!!  Here is her reaction to hearing the sirens!!!!

This has been a conversation that I had dreaded for a while!  I have always grown up with Santa being a part of Christmas, but not THE reason to celebrate!  He was more of a symbol like a Christmas tree is for Christmas!  I really wasn't sure how to break the news to my kids!  Not to mention, but I have a 2 1/2 year old to think about!  If I told my 11 and 8 year old (at the time) the truth, would we be able to keep up the fun for Monkey or would the older two slip and ruin it.   Last year was when we told our two older ones... It went really well!  I think they were sort of already there before we sat them down! We have also taught them how to distinguish between real and pretend, fact and fiction, tv shows that aren't real and documentaries-- I think that helped so "us lying to them all these years" was never an issue for them.  They never thought we "lied" to them!

 This year has been SO much fun watching my older two help keep the tradition alive!  They are having as much fun pretending and helping to keep it going for monkey as they did believing it!!

So when I am asked why or how did you tell your kids... I can't think of a better way than the way Mark Driscoll says it in an article I found on one of my friends FB pages!  I love this article because this is the exact approach we took with our kids! It also gives some great history that is worth including in the truth!  Here is what he has to say:

'Tis the season . . . for parents to decide if they will tell the truth about Santa.



When it comes to cultural issues like Santa, Christians have three options: (1) we can reject it, (2) we can receive it, or (3) we can redeem it.


Since Santa is so pervasive in our culture, it is nearly impossible to simply reject Santa as part of our annual cultural landscape. Still, as parents we don't feel we can simply receive the entire story of Santa because there is a lot of myth built on top of a true story.



Redeeming Santa

So, as the parents of five children, Grace and I have taken the third position to redeem Santa. We tell our kids that he was a real person who did live a long time ago. We also explain how people dress up as Santa and pretend to be him for fun, kind of like how young children like to dress up as pirates, princesses, superheroes, and a host of other people, real and imaginary. We explain how, in addition to the actual story of Santa, a lot of other stories have been added (e.g., flying reindeer, living in the North Pole, delivering presents to every child in one night) so that Santa is a combination of true and make-believe stories.



We do not, however, demonize Santa. Dressing up, having fun, and using the imagination God gave can be an act of holy worship and is something that, frankly, a lot of adults need to learn from children.


What we are concerned about, though, is lying to our children. We teach them that they can always trust us because we will tell them the truth and not lie to them. Conversely, we ask that they be honest with us and never lie. Since we also teach our children that Jesus is a real person who did perform real miracles, our fear is that if we teach them fanciful, make-believe stories as truth, it could erode confidence in our truthfulness where it really matters. So, we distinguish between lies, secrets, surprises, and pretend for our kids. We ask them not to tell lies or keep secrets, but do teach them that some surprises (like gift-giving) and pretending (like dressing up) can be fun and should be encouraged. We tell them the truth and encourage them to have fun watching Christmas shows on television and even sitting on Santa's lap for a holiday photo if they so desire. For parents of younger children wanting them to learn the real story of Santa Claus the Veggie Tales movie Saint Nicholas is a good choice.


The Truth about Santa Claus


The larger-than-life myths surrounding Santa Claus actually emanate from the very real person of Saint Nicholas. It is difficult to know the exact details of his life with certainty, as the ancient records are sparse, but the various pieces can be put together as a mosaic of his life.


A Gift-Giver


Nicholas was born in the third century in Patara, a village in what is now Turkey. He was born into an affluent family, but his parents died tragically when he was quite young. His parents had raised him to be a devout Christian, which led him to spend his great inheritance on helping the poor, especially children. He was known to frequently give gifts to children, sometimes even hanging socks filled with treats and presents.


Perhaps his most famous act of kindness was helping three sisters. Because their family was too poor to pay for their wedding dowry, three young Christian women were facing a life of prostitution until Nicholas paid their dowry, thereby saving them from a horrible life of sexual slavery.


A Bishop and Saint


Nicholas grew to be a well-loved Christian leader and was eventually voted the Bishop of Myra, a port city that the apostle Paul had previously visited (Acts 27:5-6). Nicholas reportedly also traveled to the legendary Council of Nicaea, where he helped defend the deity of Jesus Christ in A.D. 325.


Following his death on December 6, 343, he was canonized as a saint. The anniversary of his death became the St. Nicholas holiday when gifts were given in his memory. He remained a very popular saint among Catholic and Orthodox Christians, with some two thousand churches named after him. The holiday in his honor eventually merged with Christmas, since they were celebrated within weeks of one another.


Misnomer


During the Reformation, however, Nicholas fell out of favor with Protestants, who did not approve of canonizing certain people as saints and venerating them with holidays. His holiday was not celebrated in any Protestant country except Holland, where his legend as Sinterklass lived on. In Germany, Martin Luther replaced him with the Christ child as the object of holiday celebration, or, in German, Christkindl. Over time, the celebration of the Christ child was simply pronounced Kris Kringle and oddly became just another name for Santa Claus.


Folklore


The legends about Santa Claus are most likely a compilation of other folklore. For example, there was a myth in Nicholas' day that a demon was entering people's homes to terrorize children and that Nicholas cast it out of a home. This myth may explain why it was eventually believed that he came down people's chimneys.


Also, there was a Siberian myth (near the North Pole) that a holy man, or shaman, entered people's homes through their chimneys to leave them mushrooms as gifts. According to the legend, he would hang them in front of the fire to dry. Reindeer would reportedly eat them and become intoxicated. This may have started the myth that the reindeer could fly, as it was believed that the shaman could also fly. This myth may have merged with the Santa Claus myth, and if so, explains him traveling from the North Pole to slide down chimneys and leave presents on fireplace mantles before flying away with reindeer.


These stories of Santa Claus were first brought to America by Dutch immigrants. In the early twentieth century, stores began having Santa Claus present for children during the Christmas season. Children also began sending letters to the North Pole as the legends surrounding an otherwise simple Christian man grew.


In sum, Saint Nick was a wonderful man who loved and served Jesus faithfully. So, we gladly include him in our Christmas traditions to remind us of what it looks like for someone to live a life of devotion to Jesus as God. Our kids thank us for being both honest and fun, which we think is what Jesus wants.

article reprinted from the washington post!!




I also love the book "santa are you for real?" by Harold Myra!   It is a great look at the history in a fun way!!!


However you do it or don't do it-- just keep the main thing the main thing!  We lose sight so easily!  Jesus was born!!  That statement is so loaded!  With that statement hope, peace, salvation, redemption, grace, eternity was born as well!!!  Christmas is so much more than a baby being born in a stable in Bethlehem!!!!
Have a blessed Christmas !!!!

 WE DID IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Monkey was all excited to go and visit Santa this year.  Of course I was fully expecting her tune to change once we go there like last year!  If you don't remember last year... let me remind you HERE!  Last year's picture was one for the record books!

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This was indeed a great year!! Nannie and PopPop were able to come and spend Christmas with us this year! We started out the week making cookies and getting some prep work done! The weather started out rainy and cold. Then for the 2 days leading up to Christmas and Christmas day it was beautiful and 77 degrees!! I do sort of miss the whole white christmas thing, but I won't complain!! Nannie and Pop Pop were more than HAPPY to leave the snow behind!

We visited Hollywood studios to see the dancing lights!! (yearly tradition!) Then we took a day to go out the Kennedy Space Center. It had been a while since we were there and kids got in free. (expired the end of DEC.) Christmas Eve service was great as usual at church!

Santa came and so did the family! We had a great HUGE family meal on Christmas day! I officially have gained a gross 20 lbs!! I LOVE family!! I just love Christmas!! (can I interject?... I LOVE THE Wii we got!!!!!!!!!!!!)

Okay, back on track.... I am so blessed. I hope you all had a blessed Christmas!
Have a great 2010! Good things are coming!!
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